Mema's grandfather Googa John was a Mason and every year there would be a dinner and dance held especially for the ladies. Mema went to her first one in 1980, it was held in a smart London Hotel. Her cousin Mandy came too, as well as Nanny Brett and Big Linda. She acted like a real lady! Several years later, Googa John hosted another night and all the family were invited.It was a really lovely family affair!